Its not something i like to do..i certainly dont like to hurt anyone knowingly. But one thing for sure i know today that i am in the bad books of someone. Till today knowingly or unknowlingly i might have hurt many people, same has happened with me i have been hurt many a times but somehow i find myself forgetting those hard feelings as time passes but i do learn from it and hence today i dont trust anyone easily.
No matter how many times you say "sorry" few things cannot be cured or corrected and this word sorry doesnt help. Even when you feel deeply regretful and want to make things better but there's no other way out, sorry is your last resort. Taking a decision is tough sometimes, but standing with it really tests your patience. Its worst when someone doesnt respect your choice on a personal level and tells you few words that can never be taken back....well maybe i am guilty to some extent and i feel bad about it, changing my decision is a way i can go back in their friends list..but i dont want to do that. All i can do is leave it behind and move ahead...but i will never forget those words uttered.
No matter how many times you say "sorry" few things cannot be cured or corrected and this word sorry doesnt help. Even when you feel deeply regretful and want to make things better but there's no other way out, sorry is your last resort. Taking a decision is tough sometimes, but standing with it really tests your patience. Its worst when someone doesnt respect your choice on a personal level and tells you few words that can never be taken back....well maybe i am guilty to some extent and i feel bad about it, changing my decision is a way i can go back in their friends list..but i dont want to do that. All i can do is leave it behind and move ahead...but i will never forget those words uttered.
10 Comments:
me first.
and now lady...what happened ?
and dont be upset. true friends r not gonna run away.
and sometimes its ok to be rude or arrogant (both of which i am sure u were not)...
so chill yaar, sometimes things r not as bad as they look...
and a sweet girl like u hurting too many ppl...i dont buy that...
like i have told so many a times on my blog : growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional.
Chill yaar.... aish karo
Happens Bhumi..we ourselves have to find out ways. :)
remember what your own blog says...
IT GOES ON :)
hota hai yeh sab life mein...
hey wats up yaar...
dont be so low...
we all make mistakes...
n its so nice of u that u have realised it...
thats the best thing...
perfection is the illusion we try to achieve...
take care
n smile plsssssssssss
Cheers
Hi Bhumi,
Forgive and Forget is a powerful formula to live life. But hurt is inevitable in this case. Some people feel being assertive will help things, but I don't know.
Looks like someone did really hurt you and you had to give it back to them. You don't want to say sorry. It's okay. Don't say. But think about 10 years down the line. Would you want to be around with that person or not? If yes is the answer, then saying sorry should just be the first step in a sequence of things that you need to do to be with that person.
Big words of advice I have given. I hope I have not hurt you anywhere. The intention is to make you aware of certain things that are inside us, but we remain ignorant.
Love,
Adi.
@All: Thanks so much for all the concern :) i just vented out my frust/anger everything at that time writing this post.. it helps u know ;) m fine now.. :)
you are right.
hello
Where are u ???
Lost ???
Hey, you've been tagged. :)
Oh! So, you not gonna be in DC now huh? Too bad! We could have met up n' all. It's close to me. VA is a beautiful place. Enjoy the colors while you are here.
Post a Comment
<< Home